By rose | March 11, 2010
pls tell me what challenges and problems come your way after divorce. I have an 8 year old child and am just about restarting work..The biggest challenge really is custody and learning how to deal with your ex without anger for the benefit of the child. Always do what's best for your child and don't do what alot of parent do and use that child as a pawn against your ex.children need love and stability after the divorce is final, they deal with anger and resentments, they need support from both parents, even schools offered group support, check that out as well.This really depends on factors you haven't listed here. Such as what caused the breakup, who perceives who at fault, whether there is resentment about the divorce and the financial outcome (and child support), whether you are with another person, whether he is with another person and so on.
But if both of you put the child first, you will have the fewest problems. Good luck.First, you will find a lot of competition for men. The bars are full of 34 yr. old women looking for a man to support their children and them. Good Luck finding one.
Second, you will have to budget your income and provide for yourself. The money sent for child support is just that, it is support for the child, not enough for you to survive on.
Third, you will have to do for yourself. The things you used to tell your spouse to do, you now need to do. That means when the car breaks down, or the heater quites in the middle of the night, it is no longer his responsibility to come fix it.
Try to remember, not all men are SOB's, you just made a bad choice. If you try to make all men pay for the transgressions of your ex, you will have a lonely life.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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